A young couple moves into a new neighbourhood.
The next morning, while they are eating breakfast, the young women sees her neighbour hang the wash outside.
The laundry is not very clean, she said.
she doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.
Her husband looked on, but remained silent.
Every time her neighbour would hang a wash to dry, the young women would make the same comments.
About a month later, the young women was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband :
Look!!! She has learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?
The husband said :
I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows!
AND SO IT IS IN LIFE:
What we see when watching others, depends on the purity of the window through which we look.
Before we give any criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of mind and ask ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than to be looking for something in the person we are about to judge.